18 Aug How Can One Build On Self Confidence
How Can One Build On Self Confidence
A must read article for all…
How one thinks about himself affects ones conversation with others.
No one is born with self confidence but it is something we develop over a period of time as we tend to grow. There are lot of things which occur during ones lifetime which may help boost his/her confidence or at it may lead to breaking up in ones self confidence also, but it is us alone who are the makers of our self confidence.
Those who are lacking in confidence tends to be the ones who seems sad, sullen and negative most of the times. They tend to miss out on the better things that the life has to offer.
Following are a few tips one can follow to achieve or build self confidence in themselves
One needs to start the morning with positive thoughts and statements of intent to themselves. Create your own goal or thought example “I am make my own destiny and nothing can stop me from achieving it ”, “Arise! Awake! and stop not until the goal is reached.”
Self love is very important one needs to like themselves for what you are, do not look for faults in yourself but learn to accept them.
Observe your positive characteristics and achievements make a list of them and keep reading them at times when you feel de motivated it will not enliven you but also enriched to work even more harder.
Make sure you see the things good in you and enhance them even further. Let people around you know about the achievements of yours and do not feel shy of showing them to others. These things should make your head be raised high amongst all.
Replace all the negative thoughts you have in your life with only positive memoirs. Just like in amnesia the most wonderful thing about human brain is it tends to delete something’s, in case it was really bad for us, but only if we are wiling to let them go. So let go of the negative things you cling on to and talk only of the positives. The word Never should be thrown out of one’s diction and be replaced by always . From using sentences like I can never do new things, to something like, l am always open to challenges.
What is to be seen here is developing one’s confidence takes a bit of time, but the end result is one in which one excels and one never fails in life. To him everything is a challenge which is to be complete gleefully.